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1 00:00:33,911 --> 00:00:35,411 Dave: What's up, everybody. 2 00:00:35,441 --> 00:00:36,161 we're back. 3 00:00:36,971 --> 00:00:38,141 And We're glad to hear you. 4 00:00:38,141 --> 00:00:39,101 and We're glad to see ya. 5 00:00:39,131 --> 00:00:39,431 I say. 6 00:00:39,461 --> 00:00:40,091 we're glad to hear you. 7 00:00:40,091 --> 00:00:40,931 And I really don't hear you. 8 00:00:40,931 --> 00:00:43,001 So I don't know why I say that, but anyway. 9 00:00:43,123 --> 00:00:43,933 Thanks, Chris, you didn't. 10 00:00:44,113 --> 00:00:45,463 You could have encouraged me. 11 00:00:46,033 --> 00:00:46,543 Wayne: You're right, 12 00:00:46,543 --> 00:00:47,413 Dave: Dave, you're an idiot. 13 00:00:47,443 --> 00:00:47,803 Thank you, 14 00:00:48,103 --> 00:00:49,333 Chris: Just kept my mouth shut. 15 00:00:50,333 --> 00:00:51,023 Dave: Yes. 16 00:00:51,023 --> 00:00:51,983 I am. 17 00:00:52,163 --> 00:00:52,673 Are you guys. 18 00:00:52,913 --> 00:00:54,852 ready for the NCAA? 19 00:00:55,092 --> 00:00:55,272 Chris: I am. 20 00:00:55,272 --> 00:00:56,292 So looking forward to that. 21 00:00:56,292 --> 00:00:56,562 Dave: Who are you? 22 00:00:56,652 --> 00:00:57,882 Who you got one at all? 23 00:00:57,912 --> 00:00:58,302 Wayne. 24 00:00:59,772 --> 00:01:00,672 Wayne: I don't even know who's in it 25 00:01:00,912 --> 00:01:01,152 Dave: just. 26 00:01:01,152 --> 00:01:01,902 say Kentucky. 27 00:01:02,232 --> 00:01:04,272 Thank you of you who don't know us. 28 00:01:04,302 --> 00:01:04,422 we. 29 00:01:04,422 --> 00:01:04,752 live in 30 00:01:04,782 --> 00:01:05,262 Chris: Kentucky. 31 00:01:05,262 --> 00:01:05,352 Wayne: here. 32 00:01:05,352 --> 00:01:06,282 Dave: You got Chris. 33 00:01:06,582 --> 00:01:08,396 Chris: Kentucky not Tennessee, even though 34 00:01:08,396 --> 00:01:10,076 that's what my ballot may say. 35 00:01:10,106 --> 00:01:11,366 Dave: As, Ah, 36 00:01:11,396 --> 00:01:12,356 let us pray. 37 00:01:13,676 --> 00:01:14,846 You trader. 38 00:01:14,996 --> 00:01:15,986 Chris: Oh, I feel terrible. 39 00:01:16,076 --> 00:01:16,616 Dave: know we have. 40 00:01:16,976 --> 00:01:19,376 It has nothing to do with anything, but I want a UK shirt. 41 00:01:19,376 --> 00:01:20,516 So I go big blue. 42 00:01:20,606 --> 00:01:21,356 Chris: Yeah, absolutely. 43 00:01:21,956 --> 00:01:22,586 Dave: All right. 44 00:01:22,586 --> 00:01:24,446 So Psalm 25:21 says 45 00:01:24,446 --> 00:01:29,246 may integrity And uprightness preserve me for, I wait for you, Oh Lord. 46 00:01:29,306 --> 00:01:30,632 So that's the goal. 47 00:01:30,662 --> 00:01:32,552 today that we are. 48 00:01:32,822 --> 00:01:34,502 Being our best for God. 49 00:01:34,502 --> 00:01:34,592 I don't 50 00:01:34,592 --> 00:01:34,742 Chris: We're going 51 00:01:34,742 --> 00:01:34,772 Dave: to 52 00:01:34,772 --> 00:01:35,342 Chris: to talk about. 53 00:01:36,302 --> 00:01:37,172 Thank you, man. 54 00:01:37,262 --> 00:01:37,802 Dave: Alright. 55 00:01:37,832 --> 00:01:39,182 Chris, what do you got for us? 56 00:01:39,212 --> 00:01:39,902 Let's go. 57 00:01:39,932 --> 00:01:41,612 Chris: Today, We're going to finish the leadership 58 00:01:41,672 --> 00:01:42,122 ethics. 59 00:01:42,122 --> 00:01:42,272 We 60 00:01:42,272 --> 00:01:43,562 had a really good discussion. 61 00:01:43,562 --> 00:01:45,632 where we discussed Kohlberg and his stages. 62 00:01:45,722 --> 00:01:47,942 of ethical and morality. 63 00:01:48,422 --> 00:01:50,222 So we're going to finish that today. 64 00:01:50,732 --> 00:01:51,332 With. 65 00:01:52,052 --> 00:01:53,822 Three of the most popular. 66 00:01:54,932 --> 00:01:56,102 Leadership theories. 67 00:01:56,102 --> 00:01:59,102 Those are adaptive leadership, transformational leadership, 68 00:01:59,192 --> 00:02:00,902 and servant leadership. 69 00:02:00,932 --> 00:02:02,882 and how leadership ethics applies to them. 70 00:02:03,122 --> 00:02:03,752 Dave: Sounds good. 71 00:02:03,752 --> 00:02:07,322 That, that, that stone cold Goldberg man, he does. 72 00:02:07,982 --> 00:02:09,032 That's amazing. 73 00:02:09,032 --> 00:02:10,892 That guy does so many things. 74 00:02:12,332 --> 00:02:12,362 Chris: I 75 00:02:12,632 --> 00:02:13,472 Dave: I'm joking. 76 00:02:13,532 --> 00:02:13,652 You 77 00:02:13,652 --> 00:02:15,332 don't have to tell us I was wrong. 78 00:02:15,392 --> 00:02:16,292 I get it. 79 00:02:16,352 --> 00:02:18,212 We're just trying to be a little like. 80 00:02:18,992 --> 00:02:19,892 Lighten up. 81 00:02:20,612 --> 00:02:21,182 Alright. 82 00:02:21,212 --> 00:02:21,452 Chris: it. 83 00:02:21,812 --> 00:02:22,772 Dave: That's a good laugh. 84 00:02:22,772 --> 00:02:23,072 in one. 85 00:02:23,072 --> 00:02:23,642 I haven't heard that 86 00:02:23,672 --> 00:02:23,972 Chris: one yet. 87 00:02:24,031 --> 00:02:26,403 We haven't done much funny, so we gotta work on that. 88 00:02:26,903 --> 00:02:28,763 Dave: Now I feel guilty about that. 89 00:02:29,483 --> 00:02:30,023 Currently. 90 00:02:30,353 --> 00:02:31,853 And then funny, y'all go. 91 00:02:31,973 --> 00:02:32,903 Chris: You're always funny. 92 00:02:33,383 --> 00:02:33,743 Okay. 93 00:02:33,833 --> 00:02:34,073 Tell 94 00:02:34,073 --> 00:02:35,693 me if this sounds correct 95 00:02:35,693 --> 00:02:36,203 or not. 96 00:02:36,533 --> 00:02:37,253 It seems like 97 00:02:37,253 --> 00:02:39,323 we live in a world where one, after 98 00:02:39,323 --> 00:02:42,893 another high-profile scandals in business and government. 99 00:02:42,893 --> 00:02:43,493 happened. 100 00:02:43,883 --> 00:02:44,723 True or false. 101 00:02:45,143 --> 00:02:45,653 Dave: True. 102 00:02:45,713 --> 00:02:46,523 a hundred percent. 103 00:02:47,523 --> 00:02:48,543 Chris: Because of this. 104 00:02:48,783 --> 00:02:51,723 the interest in ethical leadership has grown proportionally. 105 00:02:52,653 --> 00:02:56,253 The ethical scholars that are the leaders of ethical scholar studies, 106 00:02:56,253 --> 00:03:00,513 such as Ronald high fights, James McGregor burns and rubber Greenleaf. 107 00:03:00,873 --> 00:03:03,423 I provided a perspective in this area. 108 00:03:03,813 --> 00:03:07,533 and a common theme is a need for leadership based on honesty. 109 00:03:07,773 --> 00:03:10,353 Service for others and moral courage. 110 00:03:10,383 --> 00:03:11,523 Would you agree with that? 111 00:03:12,393 --> 00:03:12,783 Dave: Yeah. 112 00:03:12,783 --> 00:03:14,583 that's a, that's an interesting. 113 00:03:15,063 --> 00:03:17,283 Two words you put together their moral 114 00:03:17,714 --> 00:03:18,074 Chris: Moral 115 00:03:18,224 --> 00:03:20,414 Dave: When that word, what do you think about those two words, 116 00:03:20,444 --> 00:03:20,864 Chris: Chris? 117 00:03:21,374 --> 00:03:22,034 I think about when 118 00:03:22,034 --> 00:03:24,734 you know, what the right thing is or what you should be doing. 119 00:03:24,764 --> 00:03:26,924 But yet you don't have the courage to do 120 00:03:26,924 --> 00:03:27,134 that. 121 00:03:27,134 --> 00:03:27,584 It takes a 122 00:03:27,584 --> 00:03:28,484 certain amount of courage 123 00:03:28,484 --> 00:03:30,284 to stand up when you're against the crowd. 124 00:03:30,554 --> 00:03:32,024 Dave: man, we need more Christians. 125 00:03:32,024 --> 00:03:33,164 That have moral 126 00:03:33,284 --> 00:03:33,704 Chris: do. 127 00:03:33,914 --> 00:03:34,514 Amen. 128 00:03:35,774 --> 00:03:36,194 Dave: Yeah. 129 00:03:36,194 --> 00:03:37,274 What do you think Wayne? 130 00:03:37,724 --> 00:03:39,794 Wayne: I literally tell my guys all the time. 131 00:03:40,874 --> 00:03:42,644 Don't be afraid to be. 132 00:03:43,194 --> 00:03:43,704 Different. 133 00:03:44,454 --> 00:03:45,024 Chris: Very good. 134 00:03:45,144 --> 00:03:46,224 Wayne: Be afraid to be the example. 135 00:03:46,434 --> 00:03:47,244 Chris: Very good. 136 00:03:47,574 --> 00:03:50,574 Dave: Being a guy created you to be, but make sure you have integrity. 137 00:03:50,574 --> 00:03:53,153 And I think that's what we're going through today is that right? 138 00:03:53,183 --> 00:03:53,783 Chris: That's it. 139 00:03:53,843 --> 00:03:54,353 That's it. 140 00:03:54,683 --> 00:03:56,063 So now for high fights. 141 00:03:56,603 --> 00:03:59,633 The leadership involves using authority to help followers. 142 00:03:59,723 --> 00:04:01,703 uphold the values in the workplace. 143 00:04:02,123 --> 00:04:05,633 Burns his theory of transformational leadership, which you may remember. 144 00:04:05,693 --> 00:04:09,743 emphasizes the moral development of followers and maintains a high 145 00:04:09,743 --> 00:04:13,313 standards of ethical conduct while Greenleaf's approach to leadership 146 00:04:13,613 --> 00:04:17,393 has strong, ethical overtones with the central premise, being that true 147 00:04:17,393 --> 00:04:19,613 leadership is a service to others. 148 00:04:20,603 --> 00:04:21,353 Dave: That's good stuff. 149 00:04:21,383 --> 00:04:21,773 I think, 150 00:04:21,824 --> 00:04:21,974 Chris: that. 151 00:04:22,574 --> 00:04:22,694 I 152 00:04:22,904 --> 00:04:25,574 Dave: one of the biggest things that the church is lacking. 153 00:04:25,574 --> 00:04:26,054 and I know. 154 00:04:26,114 --> 00:04:29,945 in our church is something we've wanted to get better at is serving attitude. 155 00:04:30,009 --> 00:04:34,243 And the funny thing is just look next door and try it. 156 00:04:34,273 --> 00:04:34,333 And. 157 00:04:34,543 --> 00:04:38,083 You can do, you can serve people in ways you never dreamed of. 158 00:04:38,110 --> 00:04:42,100 My wife, she doesn't always like being around people, but she can cook. 159 00:04:42,430 --> 00:04:42,910 All day 160 00:04:42,910 --> 00:04:46,000 long she loves taking people food and bless him that way. 161 00:04:46,210 --> 00:04:48,010 Chris: Oh, she is so good at that too. 162 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:49,180 She's amazing. 163 00:04:49,235 --> 00:04:52,999 Dave: She finds her lane and jumps in it and I think that's pretty important. 164 00:04:52,999 --> 00:04:53,989 What do you think Wayne? 165 00:04:54,589 --> 00:04:54,889 Wayne: Sure. 166 00:04:54,889 --> 00:04:56,382 I Not everybody is going to do. 167 00:04:56,832 --> 00:04:57,492 The same thing. 168 00:04:57,492 --> 00:04:58,923 not everyone has the same gifts. 169 00:04:58,923 --> 00:04:59,807 Chris: think we got a winner. 170 00:04:59,897 --> 00:05:00,557 Very good. 171 00:05:01,577 --> 00:05:01,787 Dave: That 172 00:05:01,817 --> 00:05:02,036 Chris: was a. 173 00:05:02,066 --> 00:05:02,786 Dave: fun sound. 174 00:05:03,536 --> 00:05:04,376 Chris: We're trying them out. 175 00:05:04,826 --> 00:05:08,126 So I think it may be good to review those three theories just quickly. 176 00:05:08,396 --> 00:05:08,576 If 177 00:05:08,576 --> 00:05:12,236 he remember high fights, his theory, is leadership, is adaptive leadership. 178 00:05:12,506 --> 00:05:15,896 And in a nutshell, it states as the responsibility of the leader is to 179 00:05:15,896 --> 00:05:19,736 assist the follower in struggling with change and personal growth. 180 00:05:20,336 --> 00:05:20,726 Burns. 181 00:05:20,726 --> 00:05:20,846 His 182 00:05:20,846 --> 00:05:21,776 theory of leadership 183 00:05:21,806 --> 00:05:23,516 is transformational leadership. 184 00:05:23,546 --> 00:05:25,826 And he states that The leader's responsibility is 185 00:05:25,826 --> 00:05:30,086 to assist the followers in assessing their values and needs, and to help followers 186 00:05:30,086 --> 00:05:32,306 rise to a higher level of functioning. 187 00:05:33,626 --> 00:05:34,346 And everybody's 188 00:05:34,346 --> 00:05:35,876 favorite is Robert Greenleaf. 189 00:05:35,906 --> 00:05:37,706 He developed his idea of servant 190 00:05:37,706 --> 00:05:40,376 leadership and he says the leaders should be attentive. 191 00:05:40,676 --> 00:05:44,426 to the concerns of their followers and should take care of them and nurture them. 192 00:05:44,906 --> 00:05:47,426 In addition, Greenleaf argues that the servant leaders 193 00:05:47,636 --> 00:05:49,316 have social responsibilities. 194 00:05:49,316 --> 00:05:51,236 To be connected with the have-nots. 195 00:05:51,236 --> 00:05:53,276 and Should strive to remove inequalities. 196 00:05:53,306 --> 00:05:54,686 and social injustices. 197 00:05:55,436 --> 00:05:58,346 Greenleaf Places a great deal of emphasis on listening. 198 00:05:58,556 --> 00:06:01,406 empathy And unconditional acceptance of others. 199 00:06:01,436 --> 00:06:02,366 Those sound familiar. 200 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:03,566 Dave: Absolutely. 201 00:06:03,621 --> 00:06:04,365 And I think. 202 00:06:05,205 --> 00:06:06,195 Say those again. 203 00:06:06,195 --> 00:06:07,965 Cause I think it's important that we hear those. 204 00:06:08,325 --> 00:06:09,225 Chris: Throws things again. 205 00:06:09,255 --> 00:06:09,435 high. 206 00:06:09,795 --> 00:06:11,955 This theory is adaptive leadership. 207 00:06:12,045 --> 00:06:12,465 Burns. 208 00:06:12,465 --> 00:06:14,685 is theory is transformational leadership. 209 00:06:14,955 --> 00:06:17,235 and Greenleaf's theory is the servant leader. 210 00:06:18,045 --> 00:06:21,945 Dave: and I think those are all important things that we need to apply. 211 00:06:21,946 --> 00:06:22,967 Every one of those. 212 00:06:23,027 --> 00:06:23,777 Chris: Absolutely. 213 00:06:24,317 --> 00:06:25,127 So now let's quickly. 214 00:06:25,127 --> 00:06:25,547 move on to 215 00:06:25,547 --> 00:06:26,177 One more. 216 00:06:26,507 --> 00:06:29,177 This was written in a book in 1986 called the 217 00:06:29,177 --> 00:06:30,077 hard problems 218 00:06:30,077 --> 00:06:30,827 of management. 219 00:06:30,857 --> 00:06:33,707 gaining the ethics edge and it's by mark pasting. 220 00:06:34,517 --> 00:06:36,797 Mark paced and was the first person to teach him. 221 00:06:37,127 --> 00:06:37,817 I'm sorry, take a 222 00:06:37,817 --> 00:06:39,047 managerial approach to 223 00:06:39,047 --> 00:06:40,337 ethics in business. 224 00:06:40,697 --> 00:06:41,057 This was 225 00:06:41,057 --> 00:06:42,917 considered very thought provoking 226 00:06:43,277 --> 00:06:43,997 at the time 227 00:06:44,057 --> 00:06:45,947 and paste and makes the following 228 00:06:45,947 --> 00:06:46,997 point to see 229 00:06:47,027 --> 00:06:48,347 if you guys agree with this. 230 00:06:48,767 --> 00:06:49,817 An ideal 231 00:06:49,937 --> 00:06:51,497 ethical organization 232 00:06:51,647 --> 00:06:53,657 adds to the value of the individuals 233 00:06:53,657 --> 00:06:54,107 who are in the 234 00:06:54,107 --> 00:06:54,947 organization. 235 00:06:55,337 --> 00:06:59,297 It does not require that the individual sacrifice some of their integrity 236 00:06:59,297 --> 00:07:00,969 to belong to the organization. 237 00:07:01,469 --> 00:07:01,949 Dave: I agree. 238 00:07:02,021 --> 00:07:02,711 I think. 239 00:07:03,041 --> 00:07:07,812 One of the things that we have to do is it's just again, I know church work. 240 00:07:07,842 --> 00:07:11,442 That's what I deal with and I have to make sure I'm above reproach. 241 00:07:11,502 --> 00:07:12,252 Chris: Absolutely. 242 00:07:12,672 --> 00:07:15,222 Dave: That, that people know I'm doing my best to live it. 243 00:07:15,222 --> 00:07:17,892 That doesn't mean I won't make mistakes, but it means that when I 244 00:07:17,892 --> 00:07:21,578 claim those mistakes allowing Jesus to work through me and get better. 245 00:07:21,698 --> 00:07:22,328 Chris: Amen. 246 00:07:22,538 --> 00:07:23,738 Wait, what do you think about that? 247 00:07:24,488 --> 00:07:25,538 Wayne: It makes perfect sense. 248 00:07:26,258 --> 00:07:29,228 Chris: Let me take that a step further and apply my own twist to that. 249 00:07:29,588 --> 00:07:33,458 Leadership when understood correctly operates the same way. 250 00:07:33,458 --> 00:07:36,188 Leadership adds to the value of the individuals. 251 00:07:36,518 --> 00:07:39,488 And it should never require that individual sacrifice 252 00:07:39,548 --> 00:07:40,788 any of their integrity. 253 00:07:41,288 --> 00:07:42,248 Agree or disagree. 254 00:07:42,398 --> 00:07:42,788 Wayne: I agree. 255 00:07:42,968 --> 00:07:43,058 I 256 00:07:43,058 --> 00:07:44,798 Dave: don't think you should ever sacrifice 257 00:07:44,798 --> 00:07:45,818 The live like him. 258 00:07:45,818 --> 00:07:48,698 And I think it's not something that we just act at. 259 00:07:48,698 --> 00:07:49,448 we live at. 260 00:07:49,478 --> 00:07:50,474 We work at it. 261 00:07:50,474 --> 00:07:51,614 It's an every day. 262 00:07:51,914 --> 00:07:53,234 put it on kind of thing. 263 00:07:53,564 --> 00:07:54,254 Chris: Absolutely. 264 00:07:54,644 --> 00:07:54,734 Does 265 00:07:54,794 --> 00:07:55,394 Dave: make sense? 266 00:07:55,724 --> 00:07:56,504 Chris: Perfect sense. 267 00:07:56,534 --> 00:07:58,334 Wayne: If I can carry that one step further, 268 00:07:58,334 --> 00:07:59,774 Dave: You absolutely can. 269 00:08:00,254 --> 00:08:02,753 Wayne: That's something I've learned as I end up. 270 00:08:02,820 --> 00:08:04,186 With opportunities to teach me. 271 00:08:04,426 --> 00:08:05,236 At the church. 272 00:08:06,166 --> 00:08:08,476 Is if I don't think of those. 273 00:08:09,646 --> 00:08:11,116 Nights where I'm teaching. 274 00:08:11,776 --> 00:08:12,916 As an assignment. 275 00:08:13,486 --> 00:08:13,666 Chris: That 276 00:08:13,666 --> 00:08:13,726 I 277 00:08:13,726 --> 00:08:15,376 Wayne: have to cover a particular thing. 278 00:08:15,766 --> 00:08:18,226 And live my daily life, always. 279 00:08:19,036 --> 00:08:20,236 In that thing that. 280 00:08:20,926 --> 00:08:22,366 In this case, in the word. 281 00:08:23,146 --> 00:08:23,446 Then. 282 00:08:23,716 --> 00:08:25,846 Wednesday nights means something completely different. 283 00:08:25,996 --> 00:08:26,926 Chris: That's beautiful. 284 00:08:27,076 --> 00:08:27,496 Yeah, 285 00:08:27,586 --> 00:08:28,576 I can see that. 286 00:08:28,816 --> 00:08:29,026 And he 287 00:08:29,026 --> 00:08:29,986 Dave: does a great job. 288 00:08:30,016 --> 00:08:30,856 on Wednesday nights. 289 00:08:30,976 --> 00:08:31,246 Chris: Yes. 290 00:08:31,306 --> 00:08:32,056 He really does. 291 00:08:32,086 --> 00:08:33,946 Dave: important that you guys know that. 292 00:08:34,484 --> 00:08:37,274 This things that we're talking about, it's not something that we just 293 00:08:37,369 --> 00:08:37,579 Chris: it's 294 00:08:37,579 --> 00:08:41,989 Dave: our life and we want to apply these things every day. 295 00:08:42,079 --> 00:08:44,526 to to our leadership and be better at it. 296 00:08:44,605 --> 00:08:45,325 Chris: Absolutely right. 297 00:08:45,355 --> 00:08:46,145 Dave: So there you go. 298 00:08:46,174 --> 00:08:48,064 Chris: Let me finish with this When the paced and viewed 299 00:08:48,064 --> 00:08:50,062 leadership a social contract. 300 00:08:50,662 --> 00:08:54,802 And he developed a two-prong test for deciding if ethics of that contract. 301 00:08:54,892 --> 00:08:57,532 should be translated to the concept of leadership. 302 00:08:58,462 --> 00:09:00,262 The social contract is sound. 303 00:09:00,322 --> 00:09:04,642 If the parties to the contract would enter the contact freely and fairly. 304 00:09:04,642 --> 00:09:05,602 is what he said. 305 00:09:06,082 --> 00:09:10,102 The patient didn't tell us what he meant by the use of the word freely. 306 00:09:10,402 --> 00:09:12,232 except it means voluntarily. 307 00:09:12,562 --> 00:09:13,342 He also did 308 00:09:13,342 --> 00:09:13,672 not. 309 00:09:13,672 --> 00:09:15,832 define the word fairly. 310 00:09:16,162 --> 00:09:20,962 But most of us know the secret to determining if a contract is fair, 311 00:09:21,172 --> 00:09:22,552 Wayne, you're a Wheeler and dealer. 312 00:09:22,552 --> 00:09:24,382 How do you know if a contract is fair? 313 00:09:24,382 --> 00:09:25,609 There's a simple test. 314 00:09:26,109 --> 00:09:28,659 Wayne: If everybody wins a little and everybody loses a little. 315 00:09:29,049 --> 00:09:29,379 Chris: That's a 316 00:09:29,379 --> 00:09:29,979 good answer. 317 00:09:30,099 --> 00:09:30,579 Dave: That's good. 318 00:09:30,579 --> 00:09:30,729 Wayne: but 319 00:09:30,729 --> 00:09:31,809 Chris: that's not what I had in mind, 320 00:09:31,839 --> 00:09:32,799 Dave: No you're wrong. 321 00:09:33,799 --> 00:09:34,639 Loser. 322 00:09:35,639 --> 00:09:36,539 Chris: Dave, what do you think. 323 00:09:37,829 --> 00:09:38,129 I 324 00:09:38,159 --> 00:09:38,369 Dave: I've 325 00:09:38,369 --> 00:09:39,749 already forgot the question now. 326 00:09:39,779 --> 00:09:40,199 go over it 327 00:09:40,439 --> 00:09:43,139 Chris: It's a simple test to tell if any contract is fair. 328 00:09:44,139 --> 00:09:44,739 Dave: I think if it. 329 00:09:44,769 --> 00:09:45,639 were for me. 330 00:09:45,639 --> 00:09:46,449 if it matches with. 331 00:09:46,449 --> 00:09:49,239 truth, if it's, if it lines up to my. 332 00:09:49,299 --> 00:09:50,019 Chris: can see that. 333 00:09:50,049 --> 00:09:52,295 Dave: To what I believe you can tell me I'm wrong. 334 00:09:52,295 --> 00:09:52,505 too. 335 00:09:52,505 --> 00:09:52,685 It's 336 00:09:52,715 --> 00:09:53,105 Chris: okay. 337 00:09:53,165 --> 00:09:53,405 But. 338 00:09:53,555 --> 00:09:56,375 the simple test to tell if any contract is fair. 339 00:09:56,705 --> 00:10:00,155 If both parties would still agree if the roles were reversed. 340 00:10:00,695 --> 00:10:00,905 Oh, 341 00:10:01,895 --> 00:10:03,395 Dave: See, I wasn't even thinking that way. 342 00:10:03,425 --> 00:10:03,635 That's. 343 00:10:03,635 --> 00:10:04,085 good. 344 00:10:05,135 --> 00:10:06,605 Wayne: He let you off easy on that one. 345 00:10:06,725 --> 00:10:07,385 Chris: I did. 346 00:10:07,445 --> 00:10:09,575 Dave: he did not lay you off. 347 00:10:09,665 --> 00:10:10,325 Wayne: railed me. 348 00:10:11,555 --> 00:10:13,415 Dave: That's because you're a loser 349 00:10:13,475 --> 00:10:15,005 Chris: Maybe a little worse with. 350 00:10:15,575 --> 00:10:17,855 So Here's a verse that I thought really tied in with this 351 00:10:17,855 --> 00:10:19,235 it's Philippians two, three. 352 00:10:19,475 --> 00:10:20,705 Do nothing from selfish. 353 00:10:21,065 --> 00:10:22,925 selfish ambition or conceit. 354 00:10:22,955 --> 00:10:23,885 but in humility. 355 00:10:24,125 --> 00:10:26,555 count others more significant than yourself. 356 00:10:26,735 --> 00:10:27,155 That's good. 357 00:10:27,515 --> 00:10:29,045 Dave: I A hundred percent and. 358 00:10:29,097 --> 00:10:29,967 What's that look like? 359 00:10:29,967 --> 00:10:30,820 How you put that on. 360 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:32,610 Chris: How to treat others. 361 00:10:33,610 --> 00:10:35,320 More significantly than yourself. 362 00:10:35,410 --> 00:10:35,920 Yes. 363 00:10:36,490 --> 00:10:37,270 That's a good question. 364 00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:38,860 How do we live that every day? 365 00:10:39,420 --> 00:10:42,810 Dave: And I think again, so there's simple things you can do. 366 00:10:42,810 --> 00:10:47,790 I remember when I first started ministry, I used to pass out those WWJD bracelets. 367 00:10:48,330 --> 00:10:49,200 Chris: I remember those well. 368 00:10:49,290 --> 00:10:49,470 Those 369 00:10:49,470 --> 00:10:53,100 Dave: bracelets are good, but that lifestyle's better If you're really 370 00:10:53,100 --> 00:10:55,590 asking yourself, what would Jesus do? 371 00:10:55,860 --> 00:10:58,890 That's a great integrity model for you to follow. 372 00:10:58,890 --> 00:11:00,340 How would Jesus handle this? 373 00:11:00,340 --> 00:11:03,174 If someone hurts you, how would Jesus deal with that hurt? 374 00:11:03,203 --> 00:11:07,703 Granted he's Jesus and we're not, but if we do our best to compare 375 00:11:07,703 --> 00:11:09,533 it and use the word as our guide. 376 00:11:10,403 --> 00:11:14,573 I've always discovered him with me to find godly people that I can trust. 377 00:11:14,933 --> 00:11:16,073 And you know, what. 378 00:11:16,133 --> 00:11:16,523 Chris, 379 00:11:16,523 --> 00:11:17,183 what do you think. 380 00:11:17,243 --> 00:11:18,203 Am I wrong here? 381 00:11:18,353 --> 00:11:18,863 Chris: I agree. 382 00:11:18,893 --> 00:11:22,523 Dave: And someone who will tell me I'm wrong. 383 00:11:22,793 --> 00:11:25,883 It's just as important as someone who will tell me I'm right. 384 00:11:25,973 --> 00:11:28,103 Chris: may be more important because they're more rare 385 00:11:28,133 --> 00:11:28,223 Dave: now. 386 00:11:28,373 --> 00:11:29,273 I think I'm right there. 387 00:11:29,273 --> 00:11:29,843 Both equal. 388 00:11:30,773 --> 00:11:31,373 Chris: I tried. 389 00:11:31,373 --> 00:11:32,093 He didn't listen. 390 00:11:32,660 --> 00:11:35,090 So I want to end this one with a couple of moral dilemmas. 391 00:11:35,090 --> 00:11:36,260 Now, the purpose of this. 392 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:36,950 It's to 393 00:11:36,950 --> 00:11:37,640 show you. 394 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,290 With regards to ethics 395 00:11:39,290 --> 00:11:40,160 or anything else? 396 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:41,000 in leadership. 397 00:11:41,420 --> 00:11:44,240 Sometimes there's no great decision. 398 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:45,560 There's no perfect decision. 399 00:11:45,560 --> 00:11:47,450 You're going to end up making people mad. 400 00:11:47,780 --> 00:11:47,930 And 401 00:11:47,930 --> 00:11:48,350 you're going to end 402 00:11:48,350 --> 00:11:50,570 up making people think you've made unethical. 403 00:11:50,570 --> 00:11:51,980 Decisions when the truth is. 404 00:11:52,010 --> 00:11:53,450 You've done the best that you 405 00:11:53,450 --> 00:11:53,930 can. 406 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,760 Dave, I want to start with you. 407 00:11:56,540 --> 00:11:59,570 In this dilemma, you're playing the role of a citizen. 408 00:12:00,470 --> 00:12:00,770 I'm sure. 409 00:12:00,770 --> 00:12:01,520 you can handle that. 410 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:03,050 Dave: and gentlemen, Dave scaff. 411 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:03,200 Yeah. 412 00:12:03,740 --> 00:12:04,550 citizen 413 00:12:04,550 --> 00:12:05,090 Wayne: Kane. 414 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:06,140 Dave: citizen. 415 00:12:07,140 --> 00:12:08,160 Chris: Let's give her a little drama to. 416 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:08,580 that one. 417 00:12:08,610 --> 00:12:08,790 We 418 00:12:08,790 --> 00:12:09,570 Dave: like to have fun. 419 00:12:10,570 --> 00:12:11,200 Chris: No. 420 00:12:12,190 --> 00:12:13,180 Dave: Barry was. 421 00:12:13,660 --> 00:12:15,490 Chris: Dave, you're driving your car. 422 00:12:15,730 --> 00:12:17,590 When you come upon the scene of an accident. 423 00:12:17,650 --> 00:12:20,590 and there's no emergency vehicles, you're the first car there. 424 00:12:21,220 --> 00:12:22,152 And clearly. 425 00:12:22,422 --> 00:12:25,572 one person will die without immediate medical care. 426 00:12:26,202 --> 00:12:28,542 You take the victim and speed to the hospital. 427 00:12:28,572 --> 00:12:29,742 You're going to save the life. 428 00:12:29,742 --> 00:12:30,642 That's wonderful. 429 00:12:31,062 --> 00:12:35,322 But the extra speed causes another accident and a person dies. 430 00:12:35,772 --> 00:12:37,113 How should you be judged? 431 00:12:37,613 --> 00:12:39,203 Dave: Oh, my goodness. 432 00:12:39,863 --> 00:12:41,963 Oh, I didn't know world. 433 00:12:42,963 --> 00:12:43,923 Chris: These are not easy. 434 00:12:44,103 --> 00:12:44,613 Yeah. 435 00:12:44,893 --> 00:12:45,595 Dave: I don't know. 436 00:12:45,595 --> 00:12:46,165 I think. 437 00:12:47,005 --> 00:12:48,955 I'm probably I lean gray. 438 00:12:48,955 --> 00:12:50,995 So my heart was right. 439 00:12:51,115 --> 00:12:53,065 I screwed up, but my heart was right. 440 00:12:53,095 --> 00:12:53,965 How should I be judged? 441 00:12:54,175 --> 00:12:58,675 So ultimately in the eyes of God, I think I gave grace in the eyes of people. 442 00:12:58,705 --> 00:12:59,545 How they look at me. 443 00:13:00,265 --> 00:13:00,355 Chris: I 444 00:13:00,355 --> 00:13:00,475 don't 445 00:13:00,475 --> 00:13:00,625 Dave: know. 446 00:13:00,625 --> 00:13:03,475 I think it would go both ways and I just gotta be okay with knowing 447 00:13:03,475 --> 00:13:04,585 that I was trying to do my best. 448 00:13:04,615 --> 00:13:04,915 shit. 449 00:13:04,915 --> 00:13:05,665 I've speeded. 450 00:13:06,625 --> 00:13:07,075 Speeding. 451 00:13:07,105 --> 00:13:07,945 Is that the right word? 452 00:13:08,635 --> 00:13:10,045 Chris: Should I have gone 453 00:13:10,045 --> 00:13:11,245 Dave: too fast. 454 00:13:12,085 --> 00:13:12,625 Chris: That's it. 455 00:13:13,169 --> 00:13:14,369 Dave: I've been drinking either. 456 00:13:14,639 --> 00:13:15,149 All right. 457 00:13:15,149 --> 00:13:15,569 Sorry. 458 00:13:15,599 --> 00:13:17,669 Chris: you were Doing your best to save a life. 459 00:13:17,699 --> 00:13:17,999 But 460 00:13:18,089 --> 00:13:18,899 I don't think. 461 00:13:18,929 --> 00:13:22,319 the Family of the person who died would agree with that at all. 462 00:13:22,469 --> 00:13:22,709 Wayne: Yes, you 463 00:13:22,769 --> 00:13:22,919 Dave: because. 464 00:13:22,919 --> 00:13:23,309 you're driving. 465 00:13:23,339 --> 00:13:23,519 Yeah, I 466 00:13:23,549 --> 00:13:23,939 agree. 467 00:13:24,119 --> 00:13:24,749 I get that. 468 00:13:24,809 --> 00:13:25,979 I get both sides of it. 469 00:13:26,035 --> 00:13:28,405 I get the hard, that's trying to save somebody to. 470 00:13:28,420 --> 00:13:31,810 But I think ultimately you can't go wrong when you'll be the law. 471 00:13:32,710 --> 00:13:33,280 Chris: That's true. 472 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:34,060 Dave: I really don't. 473 00:13:34,270 --> 00:13:34,750 And none of 474 00:13:34,764 --> 00:13:36,264 Chris: What if you would have obeyed The law. 475 00:13:36,294 --> 00:13:38,094 And you didn't speed, you didn't cause an 476 00:13:38,094 --> 00:13:39,684 accident, but the person you're trying to 477 00:13:39,684 --> 00:13:41,184 save died and his family. 478 00:13:41,184 --> 00:13:43,362 thought, Man, why didn't he step on it? 479 00:13:43,364 --> 00:13:45,884 Dave: And again, it comes down to my heart. 480 00:13:45,884 --> 00:13:47,024 You can't judge my heart. 481 00:13:47,054 --> 00:13:48,824 Chris, cause that's between me and God. 482 00:13:49,184 --> 00:13:50,444 Chris: You're absolutely right. 483 00:13:50,444 --> 00:13:52,994 Dave: but If I want, if I think I'm doing the right thing then I 484 00:13:52,994 --> 00:13:54,164 think I'm doing the right thing. 485 00:13:54,164 --> 00:13:55,044 Wayne, what do you think? 486 00:13:55,044 --> 00:13:55,422 Wayne: I think. 487 00:13:55,992 --> 00:13:58,122 No one can predict the future. 488 00:13:59,022 --> 00:14:01,392 So it goes back for me every time I. 489 00:14:01,392 --> 00:14:03,342 think I'm about to get vested for speeding. 490 00:14:04,212 --> 00:14:05,112 I always have this. 491 00:14:05,382 --> 00:14:08,532 made up conversation I can go through my head with the police officer. 492 00:14:09,059 --> 00:14:10,619 Dave: I've had to drive with him. 493 00:14:10,739 --> 00:14:11,159 Chris: my God. 494 00:14:11,969 --> 00:14:15,299 Dave: This is going to be so much fun For me. 495 00:14:15,299 --> 00:14:16,049 to go off here. 496 00:14:16,049 --> 00:14:16,919 and it's, I can't go ahead. 497 00:14:17,919 --> 00:14:19,359 Wayne: Because I always think. 498 00:14:20,359 --> 00:14:21,499 If I hadn't been speeding. 499 00:14:21,499 --> 00:14:24,229 I wouldn't be in this place, but if I had been going slower than 500 00:14:24,229 --> 00:14:25,699 maybe I would have been an accident. 501 00:14:25,849 --> 00:14:26,599 Like we really just. 502 00:14:26,659 --> 00:14:28,699 Chris: Oh, you've put some real thought into that. 503 00:14:28,789 --> 00:14:28,849 You 504 00:14:29,089 --> 00:14:30,409 Dave: have put your phone down. 505 00:14:30,499 --> 00:14:30,559 Yeah, 506 00:14:31,969 --> 00:14:32,269 Chris: Hey. 507 00:14:32,479 --> 00:14:33,469 Wayne: I was speeding. 508 00:14:34,369 --> 00:14:35,209 I wasn't doing the 509 00:14:35,209 --> 00:14:35,869 Dave: speeding. 510 00:14:37,339 --> 00:14:37,699 Chris: Okay. 511 00:14:37,729 --> 00:14:38,869 Look the point of this. 512 00:14:39,409 --> 00:14:40,399 Is hopefully. 513 00:14:40,669 --> 00:14:41,269 You can see in the 514 00:14:41,299 --> 00:14:42,319 listeners can see that 515 00:14:42,349 --> 00:14:43,729 sometimes as 516 00:14:43,729 --> 00:14:44,299 a leader, you're 517 00:14:44,299 --> 00:14:45,589 going to have to make decisions. 518 00:14:45,589 --> 00:14:46,920 that not everyone's gonna And some 519 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:47,730 people are gonna think. 520 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,920 are unethical, but you have to make 521 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,280 the best decision with the information you have at that time. 522 00:14:53,310 --> 00:14:54,870 And not looking back at it. 523 00:14:55,380 --> 00:14:56,100 Dave: Absolutely. 524 00:14:56,370 --> 00:14:56,970 That's good. 525 00:14:57,060 --> 00:14:57,330 Chris: Wayne. 526 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,880 I've got one for you in this moral dilemma, you'll be 527 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:01,420 playing the role of a salesman. 528 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:02,310 Oh, no. 529 00:15:02,310 --> 00:15:03,480 Dave: Ladies and gentlemen. 530 00:15:03,630 --> 00:15:04,770 Wayne: I'm broken, starving. 531 00:15:05,790 --> 00:15:06,060 Yeah. 532 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,670 Chris: You learn that your company is selling. 533 00:15:08,670 --> 00:15:10,050 faulty equipment. 534 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,760 That could be dangerous. 535 00:15:12,330 --> 00:15:14,580 But your spouse needs medical treatment. 536 00:15:14,580 --> 00:15:18,360 That costs a lot of money and it's a large percentage of your income. 537 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:20,010 You believe that. 538 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:25,020 if you confront your employer with the faulty equipment, you will lose your job. 539 00:15:25,530 --> 00:15:26,820 And your wife will die. 540 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:27,180 What do 541 00:15:27,180 --> 00:15:27,750 you do? 542 00:15:28,750 --> 00:15:29,290 Compared to 543 00:15:29,290 --> 00:15:29,680 Wayne: to answer. 544 00:15:30,610 --> 00:15:32,020 Chris: I wish I had the jeopardy thing. 545 00:15:32,050 --> 00:15:32,200 Yeah, 546 00:15:33,430 --> 00:15:33,910 Dave: dun. 547 00:15:34,496 --> 00:15:34,856 Dun. 548 00:15:34,856 --> 00:15:38,306 Wayne: I wouldn't bring it up to somebody in my company. 549 00:15:38,756 --> 00:15:40,256 Chris: Higher than you are lower than you. 550 00:15:40,376 --> 00:15:40,946 Higher than. 551 00:15:41,156 --> 00:15:41,240 Okay. 552 00:15:41,740 --> 00:15:43,570 Wayne: But I would probably have the goods. 553 00:15:44,410 --> 00:15:45,580 If they came back on me. 554 00:15:46,580 --> 00:15:48,530 To pursue some other sort of action. 555 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:49,610 If I got fired. 556 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:51,230 Chris: So you 557 00:15:51,290 --> 00:15:52,130 Wayne: We're doing the right thing. 558 00:15:52,190 --> 00:15:52,730 Chris: Okay. 559 00:15:53,030 --> 00:15:55,250 It's like a whistleblower thing or something like that. 560 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:56,270 Okay. 561 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:57,770 Okay. 562 00:15:58,130 --> 00:15:59,399 Yeah, your wife has. 563 00:16:00,059 --> 00:16:01,536 Certainly your main 564 00:16:01,536 --> 00:16:02,346 priority. 565 00:16:02,586 --> 00:16:02,856 Sure. 566 00:16:03,066 --> 00:16:06,696 But if you don't do something, someone could be injured or die. 567 00:16:06,726 --> 00:16:07,769 Dave, what do you think about it? 568 00:16:07,769 --> 00:16:09,569 Dave: Doing the right things, doing the right thing. 569 00:16:09,689 --> 00:16:09,779 I 570 00:16:09,809 --> 00:16:11,489 Wayne: think there's that answer again? 571 00:16:11,789 --> 00:16:11,909 Dave: I 572 00:16:11,909 --> 00:16:12,539 think Wayne's 573 00:16:12,539 --> 00:16:12,719 Chris: right. 574 00:16:12,959 --> 00:16:13,079 Dave: And. 575 00:16:13,319 --> 00:16:14,999 Wayne: I'm just going to pick the right answer. 576 00:16:15,779 --> 00:16:17,039 That's what he did last time, 577 00:16:17,249 --> 00:16:18,599 Dave: But it's true. 578 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,630 If you do what. 579 00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,430 You know is right. 580 00:16:22,690 --> 00:16:25,479 Ultimately, we stand before a judge, 581 00:16:25,485 --> 00:16:26,055 judge 582 00:16:26,415 --> 00:16:28,125 Chris: And God, the father and 583 00:16:28,215 --> 00:16:28,635 amen. 584 00:16:28,845 --> 00:16:29,295 I 585 00:16:29,295 --> 00:16:32,205 Dave: don't want to stand before him and not have done the wrong thing. 586 00:16:32,295 --> 00:16:35,955 All right, I had done the wrong thing, And So I think doing 587 00:16:35,955 --> 00:16:37,185 the right thing, you can't. 588 00:16:37,395 --> 00:16:37,605 eat. 589 00:16:37,635 --> 00:16:38,625 That's it now. 590 00:16:40,125 --> 00:16:40,365 Wayne: Does 591 00:16:40,515 --> 00:16:41,835 Dave: make it easy No. 592 00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:44,535 And do I understand if someone didn't do the right thing. 593 00:16:44,565 --> 00:16:45,465 A hundred percent. 594 00:16:45,945 --> 00:16:47,775 But doing the right things doing right thing. 595 00:16:47,865 --> 00:16:48,443 Chris: Absolutely. 596 00:16:48,493 --> 00:16:50,323 Galatians 5:16 tells us. 597 00:16:50,803 --> 00:16:55,063 But I say walk by the spirit and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 598 00:16:55,393 --> 00:16:56,113 For the desires 599 00:16:56,113 --> 00:16:57,673 of the flesh are against the spirit. 600 00:16:57,673 --> 00:16:57,823 And. 601 00:16:57,823 --> 00:16:58,873 the desires of the spirit. 602 00:16:58,873 --> 00:16:59,023 or. 603 00:16:59,023 --> 00:17:00,152 against the flesh. 604 00:17:00,652 --> 00:17:01,342 Dave: There you go. 605 00:17:01,392 --> 00:17:02,205 It's turmoil. 606 00:17:02,205 --> 00:17:02,535 It's. 607 00:17:02,805 --> 00:17:04,629 we're constantly in a sin battle. 608 00:17:04,629 --> 00:17:06,039 I think we talked about this a little bit, 609 00:17:06,099 --> 00:17:06,789 Chris: Absolutely. 610 00:17:06,789 --> 00:17:07,146 Are. 611 00:17:07,146 --> 00:17:09,663 Dave: Sin at its core is it's the Greek word home RTA. 612 00:17:10,083 --> 00:17:12,093 Which means missing the mark. 613 00:17:12,393 --> 00:17:12,603 And 614 00:17:12,603 --> 00:17:13,293 Chris: I love that. 615 00:17:13,413 --> 00:17:13,983 Love that. 616 00:17:14,043 --> 00:17:14,403 Wayne: Hey. 617 00:17:15,033 --> 00:17:17,043 Dave: Yeah, it's an archery term, Chris. 618 00:17:17,493 --> 00:17:20,798 And it's based on, when you don't hit the targets straight on you, 619 00:17:20,828 --> 00:17:24,578 miss the, you miss the point you've sent and messing God. 620 00:17:24,698 --> 00:17:25,058 Hey. 621 00:17:25,448 --> 00:17:26,288 Wayne's over there. 622 00:17:26,288 --> 00:17:27,938 acting like, he's going to shoot an arrow at me. 623 00:17:27,968 --> 00:17:29,159 Can you please stop him? 624 00:17:29,198 --> 00:17:30,518 Grow up Wayne, come 625 00:17:30,518 --> 00:17:31,808 Chris: not putting an apple on your head. 626 00:17:31,808 --> 00:17:32,768 Don't even think that. 627 00:17:33,278 --> 00:17:33,998 Dave: Yeah, but. 628 00:17:34,148 --> 00:17:38,648 But it's really important to understand anything that's not God. 629 00:17:38,678 --> 00:17:39,968 and you're messing the point. 630 00:17:40,148 --> 00:17:40,988 at sin. 631 00:17:41,288 --> 00:17:43,268 And I think we try and justify. 632 00:17:43,298 --> 00:17:43,928 it so well. 633 00:17:44,138 --> 00:17:45,008 it's not a bad bag. 634 00:17:45,038 --> 00:17:46,418 Cause I'm trusting my heart was right. 635 00:17:46,418 --> 00:17:47,708 And I even said that in the beginning, 636 00:17:47,768 --> 00:17:48,098 Chris: did. 637 00:17:48,158 --> 00:17:48,428 Yes. 638 00:17:49,088 --> 00:17:53,288 Dave: ultimately if your heart is that of Christ Jesus, then your heart is right. 639 00:17:53,708 --> 00:17:54,368 Chris: Absolutely. 640 00:17:54,578 --> 00:17:55,088 I come 641 00:17:55,088 --> 00:17:58,088 Dave: from a point of view or my heart's right, because I'm loving Jesus. 642 00:17:58,388 --> 00:17:58,748 Chris: Yes. 643 00:17:58,748 --> 00:17:59,678 Dave: Does that make sense? 644 00:17:59,678 --> 00:18:02,301 And so I need to do the right thing because I love Jesus. 645 00:18:02,371 --> 00:18:05,611 And doing that is what he's given me here on this earth to do. 646 00:18:05,731 --> 00:18:06,331 Does that make 647 00:18:06,331 --> 00:18:06,511 Chris: sense? 648 00:18:07,171 --> 00:18:08,011 That's beautiful. 649 00:18:08,101 --> 00:18:09,571 Dave: Ladies and gentlemen, thank you. 650 00:18:10,097 --> 00:18:10,757 All right. 651 00:18:11,757 --> 00:18:12,447 Chris: Anything else? 652 00:18:12,567 --> 00:18:13,497 I think we've covered it. 653 00:18:13,707 --> 00:18:13,797 All 654 00:18:13,947 --> 00:18:15,237 Dave: Let me close with this then. 655 00:18:15,327 --> 00:18:15,627 Sorry. 656 00:18:15,657 --> 00:18:16,437 there was a little blank. 657 00:18:16,437 --> 00:18:16,557 There 658 00:18:16,587 --> 00:18:17,187 Chris: you can fix that 659 00:18:17,187 --> 00:18:17,517 Dave: later. 660 00:18:17,847 --> 00:18:18,477 All right. 661 00:18:18,927 --> 00:18:20,067 Colossians three 12 says 662 00:18:20,067 --> 00:18:20,187 Chris: this. 663 00:18:21,187 --> 00:18:22,417 you can just start. 664 00:18:23,417 --> 00:18:24,737 Dave: I'm really confused. 665 00:18:25,937 --> 00:18:26,357 All right. 666 00:18:26,387 --> 00:18:26,927 Collage is. 667 00:18:27,107 --> 00:18:30,167 Oh, three 12 says this, therefore, as God's chosen. 668 00:18:30,617 --> 00:18:31,517 Chosen ones. 669 00:18:32,027 --> 00:18:33,557 Holy and dearly love. 670 00:18:33,767 --> 00:18:37,157 Put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 671 00:18:37,547 --> 00:18:39,737 Bearing with one another forgiving one another. 672 00:18:39,737 --> 00:18:43,367 And if anyone has a grievance against one another, just as the Lord has 673 00:18:43,367 --> 00:18:45,467 forgiven you, you also forgive. 674 00:18:45,827 --> 00:18:51,647 Them above all put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. 675 00:18:51,887 --> 00:18:53,387 and let the peace of Christ. 676 00:18:53,537 --> 00:18:58,127 to which you are also called in one body and one heart and be thankful. 677 00:18:58,637 --> 00:19:01,067 But the word of Christ dwell in you richly among you. 678 00:19:01,247 --> 00:19:02,237 That's it right there. 679 00:19:02,547 --> 00:19:04,167 There's a lot more to that. 680 00:19:04,167 --> 00:19:09,207 but the goal is simply this am I living out? 681 00:19:09,627 --> 00:19:11,007 My Christian walk. 682 00:19:11,067 --> 00:19:14,083 My Christ centerdness, that's, we are Christians, which is 683 00:19:14,083 --> 00:19:15,193 basically as Christ, DNS. 684 00:19:15,583 --> 00:19:16,393 what's what we are. 685 00:19:16,423 --> 00:19:17,383 that's What we do. 686 00:19:17,833 --> 00:19:20,323 And this Christian life can be summed up in that. 687 00:19:20,323 --> 00:19:24,701 And go back and read that Colossians three could read the whole part 12 through 17. 688 00:19:24,911 --> 00:19:27,731 I cut it short, but read that whole thing because it's really 689 00:19:27,731 --> 00:19:28,841 important that you understand. 690 00:19:29,081 --> 00:19:29,891 you are chosen. 691 00:19:29,891 --> 00:19:33,161 You are loved and you are called to be better. 692 00:19:33,431 --> 00:19:37,631 And as Christian leaders, I challenge you to do that. 693 00:19:37,811 --> 00:19:38,741 Can I get an amen? 694 00:19:38,861 --> 00:19:39,671 Chris: Amen. 695 00:19:39,731 --> 00:19:40,181 Wayne: Amen. 696 00:19:40,421 --> 00:19:41,201 Dave: Have a great week. 697 00:19:41,231 --> 00:19:41,951 Goodbye, everybody.